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  • No booze for you! Waitress denies pregnant woman

    good call imo because to me thats just disgusting to see happen


    Pregnant women have to put up with a lot. There's the obvious stuff, like not being able to get a good night's sleep or having to buy an entirely new wardrobe within six months then never wearing any of it again.

    And then there's the less obvious stuff, like being denied a glass of wine by a waitress.

    "But wait!" you find yourself scream-thinking. "She's pregnant! She has no business drinking wine!"

    And you'd be on your way toward having a point. But in the case of this California woman who was dining out with a friend, her obstetrician had approved of the occasional glass and drinking in moderation.

    While many women abstain outright during pregnancy, it's certainly not beyond standard doctor's orders to allow for a once-a-week glass a wine.

    Well that wine-deprived woman recently shared her story on Babycenter.com and explained how "My friend ordered a glass of wine and before the server walked off, I said I would like one as well. She said she can’t serve me. I said, "my OB says a glass of wine in moderation is ok.” She replied that she has heard that before and still refused to serve me."

    The author of the post, who goes by preston08 on Babycenter, says she was "flabbergasted, embarrassed and downright p*ssed". She also claims the Great Booze Refuse qualifies as discrimination, comparing her situation to someone who's overweight not being allowed to order an unhealthy meal.

    Preston08 also might have wanted to show her server this new -- and pretty controversial -- Danish study which found that drinking low to moderate amounts of alcohol while pregnant has virtually no impact on the overall health of a woman's children, at least through age five. The study qualified "moderate" as up to eight drinks a week; a pretty severe departure from even the most liberal drinking-while-pregnant recommendations.

    The study did find a link between mothers who drank and children with shorter attention spans. Multiple doctors and substance abuse specialists have been quick to issue caution about the findings and suggest that testing children older than five would be more instructive in examining long term developmental impact.

    http://www.hlntv.com/article/2012/06...er?hpt=hp_bn15
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  • #2
    just like most things in moderation its ok.

    and quite a few women have alcoholic drinks before they know they are pregnant and nothing happens to the child.

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Robinson View Post
      just like most things in moderation its ok.

      and quite a few women have alcoholic drinks before they know they are pregnant and nothing happens to the child.
      still a good call by the waitress imo

      thats just my opinion though
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      • #4
        As far as I know, it wasnt really the waitress' call to make.

        They can deny you when you are drunk, but ther than that I dont think they can deny. And the whole right to refuse service doesnt come into play because they had already given service and the waitress just let her personal opinions interfere.

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        • #5
          Yeah, I think this wasn't really the waitress's call to make. Personally, I'd preferred my wife not drink at all when she was pregnant, but the issue didn't come up because she barely ever has alcohol even when she's not. But I wouldn't dream of telling some stranger that she couldn't have a glass of wine.

          Frankly, if they'll sell cigarettes to pregnant women (or even to parents who smoke them in their home with their kids) I don't see how a glass of wine is raising somebody's alarm bells. (Though I suspect that this particular waitress, if put in that position, probably would refuse to sell her cigarettes, too. I'd have more sympathy with her position, then, too, though I'd still think she was overstepping.)

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          • #6
            Yeah my wife stopped drinking altogether once she found out she was pregnant with both kids, but the docs still say wine is ok in doses.


            Not that she drank a whole lot to begin with.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Mister Ed View Post
              Yeah, I think this wasn't really the waitress's call to make. Personally, I'd preferred my wife not drink at all when she was pregnant, but the issue didn't come up because she barely ever has alcohol even when she's not. But I wouldn't dream of telling some stranger that she couldn't have a glass of wine.

              Frankly, if they'll sell cigarettes to pregnant women (or even to parents who smoke them in their home with their kids) I don't see how a glass of wine is raising somebody's alarm bells. (Though I suspect that this particular waitress, if put in that position, probably would refuse to sell her cigarettes, too. I'd have more sympathy with her position, then, too, though I'd still think she was overstepping.)
              sad thing is ed i know alot of women who have smoked wile pregnant and i wanted to say something but i just kept my mouth shut

              as a smoker myself i do find it disgusting women will do that wile pregnant

              im curious to see how this will play out in the end because that woman would probably file a sute saying i was refused one because im fat or w/e
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              • #8
                Um, she would file one saying she was dicriminated against because she's pregnant.


                Wheres does fat come into play?

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Robinson View Post
                  Um, she would file one saying she was dicriminated against because she's pregnant.


                  Wheres does fat come into play?
                  just saying it could happen man

                  plus i dont think she would win anyways
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                  • #10
                    Where does that woman get off thinking she can just do what she wants with her own body. THE NERVE!

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by plastroncafe View Post
                      Where does that woman get off thinking she can just do what she wants with her own body. THE NERVE!
                      would you do the same if you were pregnant?

                      and you know i aint no pro life/ republican but common sense is common sense
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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by TazzMission View Post
                        would you do the same if you were pregnant?

                        and you know i aint no pro life/ republican but common sense is common sense
                        Have a beer or a glass of wine? Sure.
                        Having A drink is not the same thing as having ALL the drinks.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by plastroncafe View Post
                            Have a beer or a glass of wine? Sure.
                            Having A drink is not the same thing as having ALL the drinks.
                            let me ask you this then. just because its her body how would you react if the story involved lets say marijuana?

                            would you still argue that smoking weed wile pregnant is ok because its her choice?

                            im not trying to be political but seriously where does it end?
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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by TazzMission View Post
                              just saying it could happen man

                              plus i dont think she would win anyways
                              If she did file and it was shown that it was the waitress own opinions that led to her decision and not company policy then yeah the pregnant lady would have a shot.

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