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Regardless... Reason One is the important one.Originally posted by Bolerathon View PostHappened to a friend of mine at college. Louise has some fucked up plumbing. She's tried to get a hysterectomy to put an end to it but she can't get one till she's 25.
You're not just taking a risk on the girl.... what you do could potentially affect the kid.
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Originally posted by Dr. Naysay View PostEDIT : To be clear... I'm not a doctor and have no idea what I'm talking about...

Naysay has been lying to us.Last edited by Gray Lantern; 05-26-2011, 02:18 AM.MEH
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I know that but it's how I feel now and I also might end up staying with her. It's a risk but it works both ways and I can't do everything based on the assumption things will always go bad.Originally posted by Dr. Naysay View PostRegardless... Reason One is the important one.
You're not just taking a risk on the girl.... what you do could potentially affect the kid.
See where you are coming from and the lack of malice is noted.Goodbye Christopher Hitchins 1949 - 2011
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Welllllllllllllllllllll.................Originally posted by Bolerathon View PostI know that but it's how I feel now and I also might end up staying with her. It's a risk but it works both ways and I can't do everything based on the assumption things will always go bad.
See where you are coming from and the lack of malice is noted.
Good luck.
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my gf has issues with her plumbing too annd obviously there isn't much they could do at this point but she should try the marena or something like that it is a form of birth conntrol that they put inside the girl and kind closes things up in there i will try and find some info on it for you.Originally posted by Bolerathon View PostHappened to a friend of mine at college. Louise has some fucked up plumbing. She's tried to get a hysterectomy to put an end to it but she can't get one till she's 25.
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I'd say be careful sir.
I know you probably care for this girl a whole lot but if you guys haven't been together for even a year yet you don't want to get yourself tied down.
I'm not saying break things off and kick her to the curb but this is NOT a normal situation so it will not have a clear cut situation to it.
If you make the decision to stay and help her take care of the baby you are taking upon the responsibility to raise the child and be his/her father and possibly marry this girl.
Just look at the whole picture and don't get confused with "What an honorable knight in shining armor would do" and "Whats best for the two of you".
Getting attached to this baby and things not working out between the 2 of you can cause harm to EVERYONE involved.
Just don't force things.
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You talking about the coil? She's looking into it.Originally posted by havik View Postmy gf has issues with her plumbing too annd obviously there isn't much they could do at this point but she should try the marena or something like that it is a form of birth conntrol that they put inside the girl and kind closes things up in there i will try and find some info on it for you.
She's not giving me any responsibility. Any I have I'll be the one to take it. It is daunting and frightening but there is no talk of marriage. This could end up being good for me (if it happens at all).Originally posted by Logain View PostI'd say be careful sir.
I know you probably care for this girl a whole lot but if you guys haven't been together for even a year yet you don't want to get yourself tied down.
I'm not saying break things off and kick her to the curb but this is NOT a normal situation so it will not have a clear cut situation to it.
If you make the decision to stay and help her take care of the baby you are taking upon the responsibility to raise the child and be his/her father and possibly marry this girl.
Just look at the whole picture and don't get confused with "What an honorable knight in shining armor would do" and "Whats best for the two of you".
Getting attached to this baby and things not working out between the 2 of you can cause harm to EVERYONE involved.
Just don't force things.Goodbye Christopher Hitchins 1949 - 2011
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This.Originally posted by Logain View PostGetting attached to this baby and things not working out between the 2 of you can cause harm to EVERYONE involved.
Just don't force things.
And to the news itself..... DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN.
My wife watched some show about women not knowing they were pregnant. Some strange stories there....
~KL~
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People told me the same thing, at 24, but here it is 8 years later and it was the best decision I ever made.Originally posted by Dr. Naysay View PostWoah woah woah...
I think you're dumb as hell if you stick this out... but if you're gonna do it then I wish you luck.
My point is, that following you're heart isn't often the sensible thing to do. Naysay is right about that. BUT, it can often times be the most rewarding.
I say give it a long hard thought, and then move forward if that's what you REALLY want.Now you'd never call Erwin a "Wussy"
Nor label his working day "cushy"
But you might have to question
His endless obsession
With superpositional pussy.
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